I look back at my 2011 Resolution and trying to recall the gracious turn point in my career in 2010; 2011 was good for me too. 2011 offers me to attend one of the most prestigious military institutes; US Army; and of course, it is an affirmation of my potential in my career. Ironically, I was contemplating of a job switch in May, just before I accepted the promotion; seriously think about my future in the Armed Forces. Not that I am no longer patriotic, I can continue to serve in the NS side of the house anyway; it is about the job security after an extended career in the military and be out of touch when the retirement time comes. Nonetheless, the choice was made back in Jun and I am here in United States.
Revisiting 2011 resolution; I think I can safely say that I have passed the most important resolution for 2011; that is to spend more time to mend the relationship bridge. Relationship has definitely improved but there is still room to be better. I guess it can never be the same as before; like the saying goes, the crack in the mirror will forever be there. I hope that this can at least maintain for a while. Let me revisit this come 2013.
On personal development, I guess I am more competent in dealing with people; judging from the reactions and feedback that my superior, peers and subordinates had given me. I guess people are more willing to open their hearts to me that keeps me occupied for good reasons. With new faces coming up under my HR arms, I strive to maintain this impression for 2012.
Experience and travel. Interestingly in the last month of 2011, Dec, there is this massive posting of One Hundred-travel list challenge on Facebook; I have made 12 so far, of which 10 is a result of my stay in US. This is one unique experience that probably money cannot buy; and time too, who on earth will have so much time and money to visit so many places in 6 months unless you stay in this country.
Resolution. 2012 Chinese Zodiac Forecast for Horse by Grand Master Tan Khoon Yong indicates a mediocre year for me; and also this is one Master that I follow his guidance as he is quite accurate. I guess my resolution should be health since it has only 1 star rating, but no, it is not my priority. After coming off 2011 stronger on relationship, this year will be the focus on my financial well-being. After balancing the check-book in 2010, doing well in 2011, I strive to fatten the bank a little more than I had usually done. “Value for money” does not necessarily mean cheap.
This year, I will break my norms of having only 1 key resolution; I will have 2. The other focus is to love my family and wife especially more and support her than I had usually done in past years; I had spent too much time on work and neglected family. It is this US trip that made me realised how much I had missed.